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Re: Rest In Peace...
« Reply #225 on: October 24, 2012, 01:46:10 pm »
This is obviously a very emotive issue and it's easy for discussions like this to get out of hand. From what I know of the regular posters here no one would mean to imply that another poster would engage in any such behaviour.

I think responsibility is a key point here. Yes, there is a difference between a scared 9 year-old being forced by an adult and a 13 or 14 year-old aware of their own sexuality doing the running; however, just because something is on a plate you don't have to eat. I had a friend at school who at 13 was already very promiscuous, probably due in new small amount to a lack of live from her parents who used her as a weapon in their messy divorce. She absolutely believed she knew what she was doing when she chased these men - until she ended up having to go to the doctor with our form tutor for a pregnancy test. She very quickly became a scared little girl again after that. She could certainly have passed for 16, but I have to wonder how many questions the men involved were asking.

Of course it's not just girls. I was once contacted by a young man on a social networking site who'd found we through a group and wanted to be 'friends'. His profile said he was 18 - it was only once he'd told me in fairly graphic detail what he wanted from our friendship that he admitted he was only 16 but 'liked older men'. He was clearly the one doing the chasing here, but I had a choice, and I felt a 16 year-old might regret this kind of behaviour later on; plus if he'd already lied once, how was I to know he wouldn't have said 'well actually I'm not quite 16 yet...' once it was too late to stop me breaking the law? I owed it to myself to be careful and to him not to take advantage, even if as far as I knew it was all legal.
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« Reply #226 on: October 25, 2012, 08:21:28 am »
A great post Smurfy. Many thanks.
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« Reply #227 on: November 07, 2012, 06:47:40 pm »
From the department of 'I thought they died in the 80's', RIP Clive Dunn.
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« Reply #228 on: November 07, 2012, 07:00:39 pm »
Good grief, I really did think he'd gone a long time ago!
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« Reply #229 on: November 07, 2012, 07:02:42 pm »
I thought EVERYONE in Dad's Army went a long time ago. He reached the grand old age of 92.
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« Reply #230 on: November 08, 2012, 07:31:43 am »
He was a lovely man. RIP Clive, and thanks for all the laughter!
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« Reply #231 on: November 08, 2012, 03:07:32 pm »
I take it most of the cast of Dad's Army are gone now, apart from a few. What a legend. RIP

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« Reply #232 on: November 09, 2012, 06:44:01 pm »
Goodnight Jack Duckworth. :-(
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« Reply #233 on: November 10, 2012, 11:26:53 am »
Goodnight Jack Duckworth. :-(

Yea, so sad. Haven't heard or seen a single bad word sad about Bill. He was a national treasure for sure.
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« Reply #234 on: November 24, 2012, 01:14:22 pm »
RIP JR Ewing. And just when Dallas was back on our screens, too. :-(
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« Reply #235 on: November 25, 2012, 07:23:57 pm »
RIP Dinah Sheridan . 92 years old and I loved her in the railway children.
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« Reply #236 on: November 27, 2012, 03:19:43 pm »
Didn't like The Railway Children. Jenny Agutter didn't strip off in that one!

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« Reply #237 on: December 09, 2012, 01:55:58 pm »
RIP Sir Patrick Moore, aka. Gamesmaster, an absolute legend now among the stars.
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« Reply #238 on: December 10, 2012, 02:33:10 pm »
Yes, a definite legend! RIP!

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« Reply #239 on: December 16, 2012, 09:12:04 pm »
just saw that on the web, R.I.P. Neil. hoping for a nice tribute piece on Patrick's "The sky at night" prog. I'll be gutted when patrick moore goes; ive watched him for years.

As per my quote back in august; Gutted.  I'll miss his eccentricity on The Sky at Night (which i really hope continues running.)