Which loo ?

[loulou]

At the local pub where i go after work the barman Paul has now started dressing as a woman and calling himself Paula. Apparently he has to live as a woman for 2 years before he can have the operation to be a woman. So my question is which toilets should he be using? I ask this as this evening he was using the ladies and not wanting to be cruel but he does look like a man dressed as a woman and people were staring and the manager said he was expecting some complaints regarding the use of toilets.

Oh yeah and the barman isn't really Paul/Paula but i thought it best not to say his real name.

[wjp666]

he's a man. whatever he has hacked off in surgery, he's still a man. simples!

[drterror666]

He may be a man, but inside he's female.  I would say that he isn't going to ogle over other women because he doesn't fancy other women.  Unless he's a trans-lesbian, and that's a whole other story!

[loulou]

Yes I''m liking your replies. Well done.

[oldspice]

We had a transexual member of staff at work. A couple of years ago he came back from the Easter break in a skirt and wig. Luckily for him, he had a small, quite delicate build and not big hairy hands like some men. He used the ladies loos even though he hadn't at thaty point had the operation. He lot a lot of stick from the students.

[loulou]

Most of my friends said what wjp said. I suggested we have a third loo.

[easter bunny]

Men dressed as women???  One of the tooth fairies accidentally put on an Elve's jacket last week.  We laughed for ages. 

[drterror666]

Yes, that must have been really, really, REALLY funny...

If Paul is the boss, I guess he can do what he wants.  Someone could report him to the brewery.

[smurfboy]

Really wouldn't it be worse for a woman dressed as a man to use the Men's? Seeing as there's, ahem, more on display there?

[drterror666]

But would you object to a GAY man using the Men's?  That's the same as a woman dressed as a man surely?

[oldspice]

I think if everyone sticks to using cubicles it doesn't really make any difference what gender someone is.

[goldencup]

How on earth is a gay man the same as a woman dressed as a man?
Anyway, I agree with Oldspice's last post.

[oldspice]

How on earth is a gay man the same as a woman dressed as a man?
Anyway, I agree with Oldspice's last post.

Yes, I was struggling with that one too GC. It kind of assumes that all gay men are effeminate and/or that transexuals are gay.  My son is gay, straight acting and in no way could be mistaken for a woman!

[drterror666]

Oops, opened a can of worms there.  I suppose I feel that all gay men have a strong feminine side, or maybe I'm just not on the ball with that one.

Anyway, I apologise for any offence and I'm steering clear of this thread.

[oldspice]

No offence taken Dr. It's a complex issue!