I don't agree with all of your arguements oldspice, I find the convenience of it all very hard to swallow. But you are entitled to your opinion, as am I.
However I don't see how you can blame a grieving father for all the rumours and allegations. All he has done is insist that the whole thing was looked into fully and comprehensively, and not simply brushed under the carpet because they are the royal family. I would want exactly the same thing if I had lost my son under such circumstances.
The newspapers have fuelled it, as have her so-called friends in order to sell books, exposes and 'tell all stories of Diana's private life from their perspective'. That is the sickest thing about this whole thing I think. How many people who called themselves her friends have come crawling into the daylight to take advantage of their position.
I don't care what her butler thought of her private life, nor am I bothered whether or not she would have married Mr AlFayed. It's none of my business, and completely irrelevant now since they're both dead.
I think a father would have to be pretty sick to deal with the issues he has with the fact that he was not accepted as a UK citizen by the government by using the unexpected and tragic death of his son to try and make a point.
Sad, and desperate to have someone to blame definitely, grieving certainly, but vengeful? I personally don't think so.
But that's just my opinion.