Author Topic: P****d off (Read 12055 times)

chocolate chick · « **Reply #15 on:** February 18, 2005, 03:28:46 pm »

One friend is going to a wedding that has been planned for 2 years, I know that if it wasn't for that she would have been there. She is annoyed that she is missing it. I don't feel too bad about that, though I do wish she was there. We have been mates since we were 5.

But the other said its the only time her and her boyfriend can get time off work together to go on holiday, not too happy about this one. I wouldn't plan a holiday over my friends 21st!

chocolate chick · « **Reply #16 on:** February 18, 2005, 03:29:31 pm »

But I will be taking plenty of pictures but I will be looking gorgeous!

It will still be fun without them but better if they could have been there.

goldencup · « **Reply #17 on:** February 18, 2005, 04:36:27 pm »

Don't keep them any birthday cake!

loulou · « **Reply #18 on:** February 18, 2005, 05:01:44 pm »

Who mentioned cake.Yum.Can i have the corner bit with loads of icing and marzipan on.

salsa · « **Reply #19 on:** February 18, 2005, 05:02:27 pm »

I found out the guy I fancy is going to relate to try and work things out with his wife.

Tis rare i like one, and then he goes again

/me runs back to her cosy shelf.

goldencup · « **Reply #20 on:** February 18, 2005, 05:03:01 pm »

And can I have another corner bit please? Will it be a chocolate cake?

loulou · « **Reply #21 on:** February 18, 2005, 05:05:28 pm »

yum what a good idea.

oldspice · « **Reply #22 on:** February 18, 2005, 07:07:33 pm »

I've been reading about that 11 year old who has committed 16 street robberies in two months. There is a long article about him in today's Daily Telegraph. His mother blames the absent father and the social workers. His father, on being interviewed, said:

"I first got to know him when he was about seven"

For God's sake. Who are these people? The mother has five children by four fathers. Most of the fathers have no meaningful role in their children's lives - they just seem to be men who drifted through the mother's bedroom at various stages. The children are badly behaved and mostly living on the streets by choice and the mother bleets to the social services because she cannot cope. With her own children!

I'm even more bloody depressed now.

roxy · « **Reply #23 on:** February 18, 2005, 08:18:54 pm »

So blind that she can't even see how unfitting her own parenting skills are? Bollocks! And why keep doing it for christ's sake?

« **Reply #24 on:** February 18, 2005, 08:36:43 pm »

Some people didn't ought to be allowed to have children, until they can provide the means and faculties to raise them properly.

« **Reply #25 on:** February 18, 2005, 08:56:01 pm »

I have this idea, some call it sinister, but hear me out.

ALL persons are reversibly sterilised at birth and cannot procreate ( sure, shag as much as they like) until they have proven to be fit and capable of being a responsible parent. How is this done? A jury of peers, social services or some other body.

Yes, yes it's inflammatory, human rights, blah, blah. We do however need to find solutions to this ill.

Discuss

goldencup · « **Reply #26 on:** February 18, 2005, 10:24:19 pm »

True, you have to go through that sort of thing to adopt, so why not to have your own?

salsa · « **Reply #27 on:** February 19, 2005, 12:14:26 am »

Im infertile, I think its fates way of telling me I would be a crap parent.

loulou · « **Reply #28 on:** February 19, 2005, 01:00:37 am »

I agree with pham and goldencup.

oldspice · « **Reply #29 on:** February 19, 2005, 08:58:17 am »

I don't want to agree, but I kind of do agree. I am so sick of these pathetic women saying "I asked the social services to help but they wouldn't". If they cannot reason with their own children, how do they expect anyone else to ? It is not the job of social services to raise children whose parents have given up.

It is hard to be a parent, you have to make sacrifices and establish routines and boundaries so that the children get some structure. It's not all about throwing designer clothes and toys at them.

I don't know what the answer is. i give up.

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