Oh 623
Maybe you need to get a new mate. Don't feel bad about feeling jealous. We all feel that sometimes. I feel sure that there will be plenty of good lovin' on the horizon for you soon.
I agree with everyone else I think your mate sounds like he makes it up as he goes along ... ok maybe not this time, but I bet he has embelished the truth in the past and will do in the future.
I know it's a cliche but without doubt good sex with someone that you connect with emotionally is truely better that than a casual shag.
Sounds to me that in the long run the only trophy your mate will have is that he will be known on first name terms at the STD clinic!
Stay as lovely as you are 623