This remindss me of a story about three frogs that our headmaster used to telll us in assembly about once a term.
Three frogs fell into a vat of cream and were in danger of drowning. Two of the frogs tried to climb out but couldn't. They gave up trying and drowned. The third frog decided to swim round and round until he could work out how to get out of the vat. As he swam, the cream in the middle of the vat gradually turned into butter onto which the frog jumped thus he was able to escape.
The moral of this stroy was supposed to be - kkeep your head in a crisis, don't give up and eventually things willl work out.
Dear old Mr Paul died llasst summer aged 92 so it obviously worked for him