Author Topic: Phyllis Bermann  (Read 5601 times)

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« Reply #30 on: July 30, 2006, 09:33:25 am »


Depends on what terms you end on.






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« Reply #31 on: July 30, 2006, 09:35:40 am »
I was engaged at 18 and we split after three years without getting married. He stayed in our circle of friends and I withdrew. When he married a few years later I attended his wedding (I knew the bride) but did not see them much after that. Eight weeks ago a friend phoned me to say that he had died from cancer. I am still shocked and sad.
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« Reply #32 on: July 30, 2006, 11:31:12 pm »

Quote from: loulou
I always find it a bit odd when people are so friendly with their exes. Best to make a clean break and get on with your life.


 


Because you don't have to hate someone just to know your not suited to be anything more than friends. I am friends with my ex's and proud I can do so.


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« Reply #33 on: July 31, 2006, 12:02:46 am »

I don't hate any of my exes . I just don't see the point in staying in touch when I've moved on with my life and them with theirs.

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« Reply #34 on: July 31, 2006, 02:56:57 am »

I haven't been in the situation myself, but if you've been with someone for a long time and are unhappy enough to split from them, I can't see how you can then become friends.

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