Oh dear
My Granddad has suffered two strokes which have left him unable to do anything. He 'lives' in a nursing home and not in his own house with my Gran. At the moment he has pneumonia and looks very bad. It's a great shame because he'd only just retired and hadn't really had time to enjoy his life before he was taken ill.
None of my Granddad's other grandchildren ever go and visit him, there are three aged 18-20.