Author Topic: Friendly with exes or not? (Read 11024 times)

loulou · « **on:** October 13, 2005, 12:02:15 am »

Just got this idea from lorri.

Do you believe you can stay on friendly terms with an ex and has anyone?

smurfboy · « **Reply #1 on:** October 13, 2005, 12:17:58 am »

My last partner lives in Lincoln so we don't really see each other, but I think we could have stayed friends. Mind you, we weren't together long - I think it's probably more difficult the longer you're together.

loulou · « **Reply #2 on:** October 13, 2005, 12:20:49 am »

I had a 3 year relationship, a 6 month, a 4 year, then a 14 yr all in that order and I still see the 6 month one when i am out and we get on ok.

lorri · « **Reply #3 on:** October 13, 2005, 12:23:11 am »

one i cant stand the sight of and we just recoil and hiss on sight lol another i still go for a drink and a catch up with about twice a year ( think he is closet gay just does not realise lol) and two are sadly no longer with us but we were friends until then

loulou · « **Reply #4 on:** October 13, 2005, 12:23:34 am »

Forgot to add that the 3 yr one was really my first true love and he dumped me and i never seen him since. The 4 yr one i've never seen since i dumped him and wish he was dead.

lorri · « **Reply #5 on:** October 13, 2005, 12:26:50 am »

i forgot one lol he lives away and always did so not seen him since the split, but he did phone about 3 months after we split and made small talk for 5 mins before admiting only reason he rang was because he had had a dream i had and died and just wanted to check i was ok lol

loulou · « **Reply #6 on:** October 13, 2005, 12:27:20 am »

smurfboy · « **Reply #7 on:** October 13, 2005, 12:27:35 am »

I haven't seen my first love in years. I got dumped on from a great height, which is probably why I'm an unemotional slut now

loulou · « **Reply #8 on:** October 13, 2005, 12:28:35 am »

Yes being dumped on does harden you.

lorri · « **Reply #9 on:** October 13, 2005, 12:29:43 am »

my friend was dumped by the love of her life over the weekend.......im still wringing out my shoulder pads lol

loulou · « **Reply #10 on:** October 13, 2005, 12:30:26 am »

had she been with him long?

lorri · « **Reply #11 on:** October 13, 2005, 12:31:51 am »

about 6 months but was first one that she really thought was "the one " nshe is devestated poor thing

loulou · « **Reply #12 on:** October 13, 2005, 12:32:17 am »

I've had shoes longer than that.

lorri · « **Reply #13 on:** October 13, 2005, 12:34:19 am »

hee hee yep you and me both......im never sure if its my age or cynical outlook that makes me seem heartless lol

loulou · « **Reply #14 on:** October 13, 2005, 12:42:56 am »

I wouldn't cry over a 6 months relationship anymore.

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Author Topic: Friendly with exes or not? (Read 11024 times)