It was years before I was born, back in Ireland. She gave her pub to her eldest son because she disapproved of her younger son going off with an older woman who had a daughter. Then it turned out he was actually marrying the daughter. Meanwhile the son who had the pub kept all the money for himself, and it was my uncle and his new wife who ended up looking after my great-grandmother. I think it played on her mind that she had let her son down.