Good grief - what kind of characters are they hoping to build?
One boy (aged 2) was told not be be "a wimp or a faggot" and to hit a girl (aged 3) - the BBC news link here:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/devon/6366255.stm
It's so vile
I know you have to teach your kids to take care of themselves but this is beyond the pale.
I would be ashamed to be that kind of parent.