This forum was perfectly happy until your other half came along with her nasty comments and snidey remarks to smurfy. Couldn't you just shut her up a bit?
The friction actually started over the thread about the smoking ban.
I started that thread and i apologise.
Smurfboy and Oldspice and others took exception to Lisa's view that the ban was unfair, and made a LOT of personal and unpleasant comments. Of course that was bound to illicit a response!
Of course, no one seems to care about being personally nasty to Lisa and disregards what smurfboy says.
It is very frustrating. I spoke to Smurfy on MSN and we agreed a truce. However, he was unable or unwilling to abide by said truce and the whole thing escalated again.
You have all shown a nasty and vicious side whilst also displaying a startling naivity and apparent blindness and refusal to see BOTH sides.
Sure one person sl*gs someone off - they respond etc etc. Not this wolfpack scenario we have witnessed here. It seems most out of character for most of you. I was surprised and disappointed by many of your posts and Oldspices posts.
You seem to be having trouble making your mind up. On one hand you and Lisa have gone to great pains to point out that you are individuals (see the 'Why' thread) and that anything you said to me does not represent Lisa's views. Yet now you claim a truce I called with you applies to her as well! Which is it Lemoneye?
You claim people have made personal remarks towards Lisa/Babygirl, but there were no personal remarks until the two of you began making allusions to my private life. I defended myself as I have a right to. I have also been on this forum for a long time so if people who like me stick up for me I am grateful to them, and will certainly not tell them not to defend me. That's their choice.
I have had to suffer abuse every day of my life ffor twenty-six years. I don't think I deserve to face more just because I disagree with smoking in public places. Lisa/Babygirl has resorted to the lowest common denominator on every occasion possible and you have joined in with her. Even if it was 'six of one, half a dozen of the other', at least I haven't got my friends to join the forum and send abusive private messages to Babygirl.
Lemoneye, Babygirl and KylieK have all deliberately personally abused me. I've had everything from suggestions that I am somehow jealous of Babygirl's life to insinuations that I deliberately leave chat or the forum when Lemoneye appears. Well here's a shocker - I don't hang around on this forum in the hope that he'll turn up. I have a life of my own and don't log in and out of this forum according to whether Lemoneye appears.
The bottom line is that these people have been treating me like sh*t and don't like the fact that I fought back. I will continue to do so as long as that cheap mouthy little slut keeps having a go at me.
